Ok… Sorry….. I have been pretty busy lately and I will explain briefly what exactly is going on with my life..
First of all…
I went to Indonesia. I went to Jakarta and Bali and it was a pretty unreal experience. But I will talk about that in another blog post.
More recently, I have been pursuing different opportunities throughout China to begin my career. I have talked with many people and applied for various job positions in Shanghai and Beijing.
While I was talking to many of these people, I realized that before I start my career in China, which I plan to do, I really need to improve my Chinese. My Chinese is no where near ready to be sufficient in an office setting. I can get places and have conversations with random people; however, I would definitely struggle in an office setting.
So… I will be teaching another year, but this time in Chengdu (City of 10 million people). I will be working for a tutoring institute called i2. It will be a great opportunity. I will be making much more money than my current teaching position and, because I will be living in a city, I will have access to a lot more resources to learn Chinese. My plan is to hire a private tutor that I can meet with everyday. By doing this, I will be able to dramatically improve my Chinese and reach a level that would be sufficient for an office setting. I'm very excited for my next year in China.
BUT!
I'M COMING HOME!
Yes, I will be coming home for about three weeks. I will be home in mid-late July and I will leave around August 18th. Can't wait to see all my friends and family. Oh yeah, and eat western food….
In other news…
About two weekends ago, the foreign teachers and I were invited to a barbecue. We were told very little about the BBQ, except that some representatives of Pengshan had invited us to have dinner with them. We were in for quite a surprise…
We all met at the front gate of our campus and we soon realized that we were in for a real treat. When we arrived at the gate there was an entourage of extremely nice cars. Porsche Panamera, few Land Rovers, as well as a couple Mercedes. These guys were clearly the ballers of Pengshan.
We all got into the cars and drove off to the dinner spot.
Upon arriving we were met by the richest and most powerful people in Pengshan. They were in no way connected to the school. They just wanted to meet and take pictures with the foreign teachers living in Pengshan, a city in which they basically controlled.
They had a MASSIVE feast prepared for us…
SO. GOOD.
The food was fantastic. The roasted pig was quite possibly the most delicious meat I have ever tasted in my entire life. There must have been about 25 - 30 people in attendance. Each section of the table had their own BBQ. We had a lot of other types of meat and vegetables that we could grill. They treated us quite well…
The alcohol was also flowing… They had bought us giant cans of some nice German beer and the baijiu was flowing.
After we were all completely stuffed, we were thinking about going home, but that didn't happen…
Next stop, KTV (Karaoke TV)
Well we had a slight buzz going on when we showed up, but some of the Chinese hosts we're quite drunk… We spent most of the dinner walking around the table making toasts to everyone that was sitting at the table. It is very common in Chinese culture to make toasts to all the people at the table, especially the main guy. You can see the main guy of the party, basically the richest person in Pengshan, standing in the picture above. He is wearing the white shirt with his back turned to the camera. This guy must have taken 20 shots of baijiu. He is included in every toast made.
So, KTV….
We went to the nicest and definitely the most expensive KTV in all of Pengshan. We had a giant room with everything that we could have possibly needed.
The bottom picture shows the most important man of the night singing a song for all us. He was pretty drunk by this point… After this song he started dancing with some of his buddies in front of the projector screen and was stumbling around, definitely very drunk.
In the West, this would definitely be completely inappropriate; however, in China, it is expected. Because he is involved in every toast made that night, he drinks the most alcohol by far.
About 20 minutes after he sang his song and started dancing around the room, we saw him throwing up in his seat. He had his friends attending to him and taking care of him. He then got out of the KTV and we thought the night would surely be over… not the case. Everyone kept singing songs and drinking. However, our boss thought it would be a good idea for us to leave shortly after the head guy did.
It was quite a night and a very Chinese night. I know it sounds completely ridiculous for the head guy at the party to be the most drunk and puking; however, it is completely normal in China and no one even batted an eye. The foreign teachers and I were pretty shocked, but it was short lived after we thought about just how much he had to drink that night.
It was a very fun night and we were very grateful that they had invited us to the barbecue and KTV. The food was amazing and I could never say no to free beer. This experience definitely gives me a deeper understanding of Chinese culture, and I hope that it does for my readers as well.
Until next time (should be sooner rather than later),
Jono